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Monday, 20 November 2017

Yes men

I have noticed there are two types of people. The Yes men and the No men.  The Yes men are those friends that upon receiving an invite, respond quickly and enthusiastically. They may say No because they're busy, but they don't leave you hanging on the reply.

The No people may say yes but they take their time to tell you, and usually you have to chase their RSVP.

I for one, am very tired chasing RSVPs. I don't care if you come or not, but usually your NO means I can invite someone else, so an early response is appreciated. We had a party last year and I knew there was another party on the same night. As I had invited people I wasn't really close to, I presumed they would pick the other party, which I didn't really mind at all, as I'd only invited most of them to be social. What I did mind was that I had to chase about 20 of them for the RSVP. If you know you aren't going to come, why wouldn't you tell the host? The next party we had, I didn't bother inviting them because I couldn't be bothered chasing their RSVPs.

A friend was complaining how she had invited a number of people to a ticketed event, and by the time they had all decided, the tickets were sold out. She and I had gone alone because we booked immediately.

I understand life is complicated and it can be difficult to extricate yourself from obligations of family life but spare a thought for your friends trying to organise something. If you're invited, don't make them chase you. It's extra work for them and trust me, it moves you to the bottom of the list when they organise the next event. It's okay to say NO, just say it quickly...

Anyone who regularly does all the inviting will notice this pattern...and no doubt be infuriated by it.

Are you a YES or NO peep?

Linking with #IBOT, #TwinklyTuesday & #Dreamteam

Thursday, 16 November 2017

Around the World...in 2 hours













Last night I went to the Bombay Sapphire Project Botanicals. There are 2 more nights in Sydney and then it's off to Melbourne and tickets available here.













I didn't know what to expect but it's a fun sensory evening, with different tastes enhanced by visual ambiance, in a wonderland style bar.












If you can get yourself there, it's well worth the $40 fee.

In the shadows



I just liked the fuzzy shadow of the gate on the rough textured pavement.

Wednesday, 15 November 2017

Christmas, Who Gives a Crap? #ChristmasLinkUp



In December, I am often giving presents to groups, bookclubs, mah jong and other circles of acquaintances - it's more a little gesture than a proper gift. The last few years, I've given a gift bag with a festively wrapped toilet paper or box of tissues from Who Gives A Crap? along with a small soap or decoration. I easily give 24 or these, so this year I went with the 48 roll box...











What I like about these is (1) you are doing good for the environment and the global community (their profits build toilets for poverty stricken areas)  (2) if you just buy it for personal use, you can use the paper they're wrapped in as wrapping paper (a double win for the environment and your wallet) and (3) you aren't buying things that will just go into a drawer or the bin.

Now my question, what does it mean if I like the Naughty rolls more than the Nice ones?

Linking with #MummyMondays and #OpenSlather





Tuesday, 14 November 2017

Taking Stock - November

This month has flown - exams, our first HSC assessments, and a myriad of doctors appointments and other mundane things not worth mentioning.



However, I saw a great play, Give me your love by Ridiculusmus on MDMA therapy for PTSD at the Seymour. Funny, sad and left me thinking for days.

I read The Scandal, that lead to much discussion in bookclub, especially about how we use words to manipulate and take sides and I am currently learning about the Finnish Education revolution.







I went to the fabulously fun Sip My Ocean at the MCA. If in Sydney over the holidays, definitely make time to check it out.











I have tickets to the superb Fefe's gig next week. I am SO excited as I thought I was missing him because I am away for SFSC in January. However, the Gods were smiling on me! You do not want to miss him if you are in Sydney, Melbourne or Adelaide in January. Tickets are here. He's so much FUN!! It's a fab day out and kids under 12 are free.


 
Lastly, today the nation voted YES. I am very happy that this fiasco is over. I will admit I am disappointed at the high percentage of NO's; even in the top YES electorates, it was still 20% No.  I am saddened at the damage this futile process has done, as we all know the actual marriages won't happen any time soon. Please think of the LBGTQI children in a NO household, who might now be too terrified to ever come out. Think of how they must feel, knowing what their parents think of them? Think of the sense of shame a scared child would feel, being bombarded with the rhetoric of the last six weeks. For that, this process was not worth it. Nor was it ever worth the extra money spent on something that we actually already pay the government to do. My only silver lining in the YES result is those LBGTQI people living in NO households and areas know that overall, the country respects them. Even if we had to be marched to the ballot rather than just treat them with the dignity every human deserves.


Linking with #Lifethisweek #KALCOLS #StayClassyMama #DreamTeam and #LovinLifeLinky because after yesterday's YES vote and World Cup win, how can you not love where we live?!


Linking this last photo with #WeekendRelections, as it's taken through glass and you can see the heart reflected in the glass, and the shadow reflected on the wall.

Monday, 13 November 2017

Remedy Update

Not quite the Torschlusspanik success yet but my bag of supplies made it's journey across the globe. As discussed here, I organised to supply some things from the Landmine Museum and Relief Centre's wishlist.

My friend headed to Siem Reap, carrying the bag, with the correct paperwork (and she packed it herself - never carry anything through customs for anyone!!)

On the long, long bus ride, she and the bag made their way through the rain and mud, until finally the goods found their new home!






I can't begin to describe the spring it put on my step. This is just a thank you to my kind friends that donated and my generous friend who lugged the bag to Cambodia.

Now to find a sponsor for the truck they need....

Linking for #FortheloveofBLOG & #MondayMusings










A short 3 minute video on the great work they do.

Friday, 10 November 2017

Art & About




While I missed Sculpture by the Sea this year, I managed to squeeze in a quick visit to The Last Resort by Anri Sala.  Lovely to hear the music while taking in the views, or watching the mesmerizing and joyous beating drumsticks.








Sometimes the smallest thing can elevate the spirits. It was a slight detour for us, on the way to somewhere else, but well worth the effort.










While we all march to a different drumbeat, it doesn't hurt to dance along to others sometimes.

Linking with WordlessWednesday #MySundayPhoto #MySundayBest #WednesdayAroundtheWorld #OutdoorWednesday














And can you see me? A shot for #WeekendReflections